Monday, February 27, 2017

We live an adoption dream

It is crazy, in a world that is so complicated, so difficult and in a circumstance that is tough you would think that I wouldn't get along with my adopted family and visa versa. I think this is rare. I kind miss hearing about group and stats about stuff. Charity was the best thing ever that happened to me because she would keep my feeling normal when things were so crazy. Anyway, I am just so grateful for the normal relationship that I have with P and his family. It is like family friends though. We are lucky and it is rare.

I mean everything about it is just wild and I LOVE that.

I haven't received permission from J ( P's dad) but he called me to ask me about breastfeeding because he is a nurse. It was really fun to talk to him about it. We have such a great relationship. Like what other male have I talked to about breastfeeding and pumping? Nobody!

We all went to Hardware Ranch and it was SUCH a blast to be together. We are really so lucky and there was a moment that my step daughter was REALLY possessive of baby E and P was also possessive of him and saying he is my brother and they both were so cray about that. My step daughter doesn't realize who P is. I don't really want her telling her family who he is because he is sacred to me so we have told her a few times but she doesn't get it. She thinks that we C and I have always been married and her mom has always been single. The joys of a 4 year old.

I kept telling them, this is both of your brother. He is your half brother. He is half of each of you. They were BEYOND confused. It was funny. But they play together and that is such a relief! Soon they will have a little half brother running after them!

This is a must go!

https://wildlife.utah.gov/hardwareranch/

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

Abortion verse Adoption

This is really the most disturbing thing I've ever seen on my Facebook that any of my "friends" have ever posted. I couldn't be more baffled, shocked and disgusted. This is not what the human race has come to is it? 
Am I reading it wrong. Someone tell me I'm reading this wrong.  To me this says,  everybody is against abortion but if these women who abort their babies had them,  nobody would adopt. 
 
I wear alot of titles considering motherhood, birth mom, step mom and mom. I would adopt in a second,  if the circumstance was right and I felt good about it. I feel like their are a shortage of children that are placed for adoption.  I'm so close to writing on my fb page but I've already shared another post about when heart beat stops your considered dead but when your heart beat starts your not considered alive with any "rights".
Am I alone in this? Those babies,  this is just heart breaking!
 
Breaks your heart to think this is our society.
 
I remember before I even got prego and placed P that I noticed how HARD it was for people to adopt and scarce!