http://www.ksl.com/?sid=29697360&nid=148&title=woman-discovers-she-was-adopted-by-relatives-after-meeting-birth-mother&s_cid=queue-6
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I made the book for baby boy this past month and the days I was making it were so exhausting emotionally. Being apart of the life and thinking about baby takes it out of the birth mom.
I think we always saw the side of the adoptive family and I think the birth moms go unseen.
Being apart of the family of your baby is hard for the birth mom... it seems that it is normally the birth mom who says she doesn't want a part of the life anymore. In my mean mind I think that adoptive parents must love that ( not my families because they are rare and gems) but they must think, oh eventually she won't care anymore but really it is that it to hard to care.
In the article above I wish there was more from the birth mom. I am SO biased but I would love to hear her heart.
Placing baby boy was so difficult and I couldn't have done it without knowing in my heart, mind and whole soul that it was meant to be. I even went to the extreme of feeling like I stole the adoptive moms experience to be pregnant because I feel so much that he is supposed to be with his family.
Well, I one haven't changed my feelings about having contact with the family. It is pretty easy 99 percent of the time.
I have been dreaming every night about his mom, dad and him. I get to see him this weekend. I haven't seen him since before St Patty day. CRAY!
BTW I am almost done with the word cray. It is fading out.... lol
Either way adoption is amazing. It is a way that familes are here on earth. It is a way that God saves his little children.
Every time I hear how the adoptive dad does something for baby boy that adoptive mom can't make him do, like laugh or giggle ect I think that is what I gave him. A family unit.
The adoptive mom is wonderful, talented and is so similar to me. I love that about her. She is really different from me in some areas too but for the most part similar. I love it. The mom is so educated and baby boy will be so blessed from her. I am so blessed by her friendship, she is really my friend. I am so lucky to be able to call her and discuss life, same gender attraction for instance. It is SO fun to talk to her. Of course we love baby boy but talking to her about life is just heart melting. We will always be family ;)
The adoptive dad is charming, sweet and a little less easy to trust. He is a little similar to me too. I love that about him. I think the pair is just wonderful. The dad is so cautious but then again he is a man, rub some dirt in it. He'll be fine.
The baby boy is so strong, he is going to be perfect because of his amazing mommy and daddy! Lucky guy.
Well, I do love life.
They guy I am dating is a dream come true. He is worth everything I have ever learned.
LIFE IS GOOD!
XO
Alice
PS- for every adopted baby that can't find their birth mom, I just want to be their birth mom and tell them how loved they are. She loves you!
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